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Thursday, January 04, 2024

HUMANITY GONE LEFT

 

Ms. Evis, my first grade teacher who delighted in having her students dance around the Maypole and other Irish celebrations I’ve long forgotten, would violently snatch the pencil out of my left hand. 

"It’s a right handed world!" she’d scold forcing the pencil into my right hand. 


But this world ain't right.


Day after day, week after week we watch in horror as 2,000 pound bombs are dropped on civilian populations in Gaza: homes, schools, hospitals, mosques, churches, historic monuments, refugee camps -  often live and in 5G. The New York Times estimates there have been 200 such bombs dropped on civilian targets by an army which boasts some of the smartest and accurate weaponry on the planet. 


Trauma porn: I can’t look away.


In 2011 I planned a trip for Egypt to see the pyramids. A bucket list type of trip for sure. 4 of us were scheduled to go but the other 3 dropped out for various reasons so I went alone reasoning I might not ever get the opportunity again. Alone amongst the myriads of other tourists I would look at the majesty of the Great Pyramids and Sphinx and ask aloud to the oblivious crowd: Is anyone seeing this?


Is anyone seeing this?!?


Upon his release from his Robben Island prison after 27 years, the Great Freedom Fighter, Nelson Mandela – to whom a statue was erected in Gaza - stated about the Palestinian situation “We are not free until we all are free!” Nelson Mandela become the President of South Africa from 1994 – 1999 and was paraded around the world, rightfully, as a hero. Interesting to note that he was still on America’s “Terrorist List” during his tenure as President and wasn’t removed from said list until 2008! 


America is never if very rarely on the right side of history.


There’s a book series where they teach you the basics of a given subject: Computers for Dummies, Writing Business Plans for Dummies and so forth. I suggest a new title for the series: Humanity For Dummies. An early chapter would read something like this:


It is wrong to systematically kill children for any reason, regardless of the “reason”;  shooting pregnant mothers waving white flags on their way to the hospital to give birth is both wrong and reprehensible;  making videos of yourself bombing refugee camps and civilian buildings leaving folks to sift through tons of concrete rubble barehanded often with nothing more on their feet than sandals is not a good look.


You know, the basics.


Maybe I care so much because their story of colonialism is so familiar. I see MYSELF digging through the rubble for my child. Interestingly, when Michael Brown was killed in the US a few years back, it was Palestinians who reached out to Black Lives Matter activists giving them suggestions about how to handle the effects of tear gas and other ways of coping with an oppressive regime. And I feel we’ve let them down, the world collectively as we witness their merciless onslaught.


The New York Times wrote an article about a week back that stated:


How could anyone just go on as if nothing had happened? A common conclusion is that people just don’t care. But inaction isn’t always caused by apathy. It can also be the product of empathy. More specifically, it can be the result of what psychologists call empathic distress: hurting for others while feeling unable to help.


But another product of empathic distress that the article didn’t touch on is RAGE. I stay pissed off. At my friends for seemingly not caring enough, at the UN for being the UN – completely fucking useless, at the United States – specifically an administration I voted for! - for supplying the weapons used to slaughter civilians, at myself for seeing the carnage and just scrolling past and commenting on some light-hearted story where my biggest concern is which emoji to use (insert eyeroll emoji).


So I make myself feel better by donating to places like Doctors Without Borders and hope beyond hope that somehow, in some way my couple of dollars will make a difference while scrolling to the next story pretending that everything is fine. But like Marcellus’ character in Pulp Fiction said to Bruce Willis after that horrific pawn shop basement scene “nah man, I’m pretty fucking far from OK.”


This past weekend I turned 54 years old and much to the chagrin of my late teacher Ms. Evis, I still write with my left.


It’s just the world that remains far from right (insert broken heart, crying emoji).


Wednesday, May 27, 2020

Damn. Write.


“Release what’s in me. Besides the Henny, it’s eyes that seen plenty…”
-       Nas, Shootouts

Years ago, when my now adult children were about four and five, we were coming from Baskin Robbins one evening for an after-dinner treat. At a green light, I made a left turn and immediately heard sirens behind me. I pulled over and two cops approached the car. I was immediately annoyed.

“What’s the problem?”
“You took a red light.”
“The light was green before I turned what are you talking about?”

Then one of them, the younger one, took out his flashlight and shone it in my kids face as they were eating their ice cream cones in the back seat. And he held it there. And he held it there. Finally, my daughter put up her hand to protect herself from the light.

“Get the light out of her fucking face!”

And he continued to hold it there, jeering at her discomfort. That look. How pleased he was tormenting a child. I attempted to push open the door. I just acted. Didn’t stop to think. The other cop leaned his weight and slammed my door shut.  Apparently no longer enjoying his partner’s antics he said something like “They’re kids. C’mon. Enough now.”

No ticket or summons was written, no warning, just the younger one laughing and saying, “Have a good night!” as they walked back to their car. I wonder if my kids even remember that.

My cousin Derek says that God can and will use any man for His purpose at any time. That night God saved me from my own hot-headed actions and used another cop to do so. I have no doubt I would’ve been beaten, maimed, possibly killed. In front of my children no less.

Unfathomable.

But the thing is – it’s not unfathomable. Every day, folks with melanin face similar situations.

Years ago, a kid was on his Big Wheel on 86th street and his oblivious dad was walking behind him reading a newspaper and the child veered into two-way traffic just peddling along. I ran out to try and grab the kid as a car screeched right in front of us. If I stopped to think about the consequences, I probably would’ve just froze thinking about the options and my own safety. How would I react if I was to witness a cop manhandling a child, my sister, or kneeling on my brother’s neck? Do I black out, jump into action and get killed or do I stop and think about the consequences and instead pull out my phone and press record. Or - even a better question - why the fuck do I even have to think about this?

I’ve been staring at my keyboard for what seems like months. Want to write about one thing, then this happens…COVID19 inequalities, then this happens…an unarmed senseless killing, then another one happens. Most of us are just one paycheck away, one cough away, one police stop away from it all just crashing down around us and possibly becoming a hashtag. It’s so necessary to unplug from the Matrix every so often. You must. For the sake of my mental health I’ll temporarily suspend my social media accounts and turn off the TV – but like an addict I quickly return: just one more post, one last tweet, “just let me watch Anderson’s opening monologue then I’ll turn off CNN, I swear!”

Living in these times calls to mind Orwell’s Animal Farm, Edgar Allan Poe’s Imp of the Perverse, Ralph Ellison’s Invisible Man.

What’s going on today is just…I had to stop and research synonyms for “evil” because evil just doesn’t quite seem to do. Wicked? Vile? Devoid of God?

“I’m going to call 911 and tell them there’s an African American man threatening my life!” 
Wicked.

Arresting and imprisoning a man after his lady was killed by cops after they burst into THE WRONG HOUSE UNANNOUNCED and he attempted to protect them both.
Vile.

Kneeling on the neck of a restrained, non-threatening, handcuffed man with your full weight, as he insists he can’t breathe then with his dying breath cries for his mother–doing this in full daylight KNOWING you’re being filmed and your demeanor switches from ho-hum to sadistic as you look down and shift your weight?
Devoid of God.

To merely say it’s exhausting at this point is a testament to my limited vocabulary. And through it all we strive to keep our minds right and go about our business as we’re unwittingly cast in a perverse Blaxploitation snuff film;  our lives brutally taken for all to see.

Can I live? I just wanna look at the birds, man!

Anderson Cooper always makes it a point to remind his viewers “These aren’t normal times. This isn’t normal.”

But isn’t it?

“We’re better than this!” they exclaim. Umm, no. We’re not. Read a book on slavery, any book. Read “American Holocaust” by David E. Stannard, an eyewitness account of what Columbus’ men did to  Native Americans when they arrived here, hacking babies from the womb of pregnant women; testing the sharpness of their blade by cutting newborn babies in two. If you cut them clear in half with one swipe, your blade is sharp enough!

“The system is broken!” Nah, dog. The system is a well-oiled machine with every part moving exactly as it was designed to. Banking, schools, medical, housing, the legal system: everything’s all on point; never been better!

Witness the absurdity of Native Americans being forced to explain to folks WHY they’re conducting temperature checks before you enter their land – THEIR LAND! – so their people won’t get sick and burden their already depleted and dilapidated medical system - if you can even call it that. Why should this have to be explained?

Fucking unfathomable.

Perhaps I’m just in the “angry old man” phase of my life where I’m just not explaining shit to anyone. Like Jimmy Conway told Henry Hill in Goodfellas “This is what it is, Ok? We know what it is.” You don’t get why certain things are wrong and choose to live in Oblivion? That’s fine. I’m talking about Black people here too - something crazy happens and you want to bring up “Black on Black crime”? That’s great. 2+2 equals 47? Yes, it does. It’s 20friggin20. Just do me a favor and keep all that shit over there.

At this stage in the game we should be wondering what type of fuel our flying cars need yet we’re explaining to Little Johnny that shooting up the school and killing all his classmates is wrong. Bad, Little Johnny, Bad!

In this Great Age of Technology, mentally and spiritually, we just invented a wheel made from stone. How proud we are!

Our collective feet bleed from marching - but they don’t understand marching. They don’t understand ‘turn the other cheek’. They don’t understand the scriptures you cite them from their Bible. 

Showing Noah a rainbow, God promised him “No more water. The fire next time!”

Some scientists believe African American’s have PTSD stamped on our DNA. Of course, we do! This shit is terrifying. Pre-COVID. Pre-“Karen”. Pre-PS 72 free lunch. All day, every day. Terrifying. Exhausting. Demeaning. Angering.

In 1961 James Baldwin said, “To be Negro in this country and to be relatively conscious is to be in a rage almost all the time.” But what he said right after is often ignored. He then continued “So that the first problem is how to control that rage so that it won’t destroy YOU.”

Damn. Right.

Wednesday, April 03, 2019

10,000 and Change (originally published in Brothers Speak, July 2009)


I recently saw a commercial that had me literally stop in my tracks, take out my Blackberry and start frantically punching numbers into its' calculator. I don’t remember what the product was being advertised, but the gist of the commercial was that on an average, a man will live to see 25,000 days.

After checking the figures twice, and once more for confirmation, the answer staring back at me had me scratching my head. Out of 25,000 days I am now down to my last 10 thousand and change. I tried somehow to take inventory. Could that be possible? Did I really run through almost 15 thousand days? Already? Where have they gone and what have I done with them? What are my accomplishments thus far? This made me take note of what others had accomplished within their first 15 thousand days. Kurt Cobain, Janice Joplin, Jimi Hendrix and Jim Morrison all died at 27 and established musical legacies in a scant 9,855 days of existence; the prodigy Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart was composing immortal classics within his first 2,190 days.

Not too comforting.

Modern day quantum physicists subscribe to the notion that time is an illusion. Plato argued that time is constant - it’s life that’s the illusion. Who’s to say? It’s almost eerie to think back on childhood memories with my mother. In most of my memories, I am now older than she was. Like the day she turned 25 and said to me “I’m 25 years old today. I’m officially over the hill.” Today I’m almost 15 years older than her in that memory and I remember it like it was yesterday; surreal.

I remember graduating from school and mentioning to a family friend I had no idea what I was going to do next and being irked by his answer, “You have plenty of time.” I never felt that way. Even when I was much younger that line of reasoning never held water with me. And this um - illusion - seems to be going by quicker every year.

When I was a kid, summers were endless. Sometimes to the point I was actually looking forward to school. Now if I don’t plan my summer weekend activities, it’s over. Just like that. Michael Douglas’ character Gordon Gecko from the movie Wall Street stressed to his young protégé that you should strive to be “rich enough not to waste time.” My friends in South Africa seem to live by that creed. I once had the gall to ask them, while visiting them in their beach house in Cape Town and noticing their housekeeper was ironing my underwear, why they insisted on having live-in housekeepers. Their simple answer: it gives them time to take care of the important things in life. They have life plans for 3, 5, 10, 20 years out; they constantly check and modify their SWOT (Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities, Threats) Analysis; they find time for their passions and hobbies; spending time with friends and family instead of concentrating on the mundane chores. They seem very conscious of this illusion called time and want to wring every drop out of it and make it count. That gave me something to think about at the time, as I sat on the terrace of their beach house sipping on a mimosa wearing crisp, creased boxer shorts.

10,000 and change…

Dan Kennedy, in his book No BS Time Management warns against certain people and activities as “Time Vampires”. The coworkers who come by your desk with really nothing to say, just to complain about the job in general or management in particular while you’re on deadline or even on the phone; the friends who call you up regurgitating past conversations because they have plenty of minutes on their cell phone plan but nothing to say; television…all time vampires.

There’s so much to cram within these last 10 thousand days. Reviewing my bucket list recently I came to the conclusion that it’s aggressive even for a man with 25,000 days left. Time to roll up the sleeves and start ticking off a few of them. A famous coach once said you will miss 100 percent of the shots you don’t take. That book you wanted to write? That great idea of a documentary you wanted to make? That song no one knows you can sing? Why not? And, better yet, why not NOW? The time is going to pass anyway; moving past your treadmill existence. “I’ll get to it eventually,”… “There is always tomorrow,” reasons the procrastinator.

But tomorrow, today is yesterday.

And so it goes. You can keep your regular job. You know, just mix it up a little. Have some starfish and coffee some mornings instead of egg whites on wheat toast; live it off the wall, as the immortal Michael Jackson advised.

Because if it turns out to be true that time is only an illusion, in this illusion we’re only blessed with so many days.

Tuesday, July 10, 2018

God, Caves and Cages

 So, Job, right?

The richest man in the Orient. The Bible describes him as the most faithful and righteous, “blameless and upright.” He thought he and God were boys. Satan tells God that Job is only faithful to Him because he’s been blessed, but if these things were taken away he’d curse God to his very face.

God says, "You're on!"

Satan proceeds to kill Job’s 10 children, he loses everything he owns, his servants and some other crazy shit. Then on the brink of losing his mind, God tells him “nah, we’re cool,” restores Job’s health, doubles his original wealth, gives him a wife with a better ass and he “was blessed” with 10 more children.

“I was kinda attached to those kids, God. Losing them... that sucks, man. But thanks for these 10 others. I guess we'll make do.”

God to Satan: I can shoot someone on Fifth Avenue and not lose any supporters. 

Where were you when kids were in cages?

The story of Lot always got to me. I must've been seven or eight years old the first time I heard it, and my question’s the same:

Why would Lot, to shield some total strangers, throw his virgin daughters out to be raped by a raving “homosexual mob”? To show the men the best damn hospitality Sodom and Gomorrah had to offer? Protect men who show up claiming to be angels in human forms? And just how could they prove that? And if they were truly a "homosexual mob" would virgin girls had so easily appeased them? Well, it was Sodom and Gomorrah after all. And what exactly was Gomorrah?

Why would Lot do that?

You know what the difference between a child in a cage verses a child in a cave is?

One is being held by Pure Unadulterated Evil. 

And the kids in the cave are free. 

Tuesday, July 03, 2018

The Beautiful One (Chapter 1, Alevan Thirty)


I. THE BEAUTIFUL ONE


                     What is history but a fiction that’s agreed upon?
                                                            — Napoleon Bonaparte


        
As soon as she was old enough to utter words, she spoke in vivid detail of past events, of times long gone, and of days yet to come. In a trance-like state, she would recount her life as a slave enduring a cruel mistress, of running away to the swamplands of Florida and being taken in by the Seminoles, of wallowing in the filth and despair of an asylum while waiting on someone who never returned. In gruesome clarity, she would painstakingly replay such events with the ability to name both places unknown and persons unfamiliar to either of her parents.
In her heart, she held tight to a belief not easily explained. She was convinced she was from another place to which she would one day return. It was her faith in this notion that fueled her existence. Everything she would do fell in line with this conviction.
        The intensity and lucidity with which the two-year-old relayed such events frightened her father. “That was just a dream, sweetheart,” he once offered. This only led, however, to an unbridled emotional outburst, previously unseen from the unusually placid child. From that day forward, her father kept his thoughts to himself.
        Later, when she turned five, he invited her, instead, to write down her dreams and ideas and bought her a brown leather journal for that sole purpose. He once picked it up with the intention of reading it through, read one entry, and would never touch it again.
Every morning at sunrise she would write in her journal her thoughts along with the events of the previous day. The words starting each entry were always the same: ’Twas a beautiful day’. Oftentimes, what she described thereafter was anything but beautiful. In fact, if you were privy to some entries, you might delineate them as horrific. She would argue, however, that it was just an experience in an otherwise beautiful day. Such was the child’s disposition and yet another distinction between her and everyone else.
        When she turned six, a school psychologist suggested she had a form of synesthesia. She did not see people the way you and I would. She would look at you and first see the aura around you, the colors emanating from your being. These colors would change around most people, depending on their mood or disposition. Since Shadows—as she referred to people—were led by their fluctuating emotions, their auras would be in constant turmoil. Happiness might be conveyed by either an orange or yellowish hue, depression, bluish or purple. Anger or jealousy might be crimson. “But the Beautiful Ones,” she explained, “are constant. The spectrum—the colors in the rainbow—envelope them, always.” In this lifetime, there was only one other person she found befitting that description.
        The child’s diagnosis by the school psychologist was welcome news to her mother. Mrs. Waters fancied her daughter to be—like herself—a misunderstood genius, a prodigy born at the wrong time and to, unfortunately, the wrong parents. She felt she too, was misunderstood and her talent wasted. She once had big plans for a brilliant future but fell in love with a man whose religion she later adopted and found nobility in poverty.
        Mrs. Kathleen Waters dreamt that tomorrow had a prettier face, but instead, every morning awoke to the truth. She did not want to be known as just another dreamer, yet time was moving past her treadmill existence. In her early years, she had been obsessed with achieving fame and, in her mind, was interviewed by Oprah many times. At first it was Arsenio. When The Arsenio Hall Show was cancelled, she became distraught and physically ill. She realized that every cancelled talk show brought her face-to-face with the reality of her own obscurity. After her second daughter turned two, she began reading scripts and rehearsing for roles in an effort to escape the life that once held so much promise and was now filled with so much despair.
        This stifled artist, her husband, and their two daughters lived in a northeast section of the Bronx called Throgs Neck in a housing project that was good by housing-projects standards. Still it was a housing project, nonetheless. Eight years earlier, at the height of their religious fervor, they sold their Brooklyn condominium and most of their worldly possessions to rid themselves of anything that would hinder a life of fulltime evangelism and moved to an area where there would be more souls to save.
        Mrs. Waters had decided she would leave her family if and when the right professional opportunity presented itself and was lost in such thought when her older daughter came to her, bent over and suffering from stomach pains. The girl had had such complaints for over a week, and, as usual, Mrs. Waters administered a glass of warm ginger ale and sent her to bed. At first, the child had gone to her father for help, but he had been too busy at the time to be bothered with her childish grievances as he was in the middle of preparations for the next day’s street service and saving souls. As a result, he had advised his daughter to seek help from her mother.
        The next day, the school nurse called Kathleen Waters at her job. “Your daughter has just been rushed to Jacobi Hospital,” she said. “She’s in very bad shape.”
        The stomach aches, the doctors would explain, were caused by gastrointestinal bleeding due to Crohn’s disease. By the time the diagnosis was made, the aggressive condition was in an advanced stage and the doctors moved to rush the child immediately to surgery in an effort to save her life. Her parents, specifically her father, feared such a hasty decision because their religion prohibited receiving medical blood transfusions even in such dire cases as a life and death situation which, according to the doctors, this certainly was. He thought it best to consult the Congregation Wise Men. The doctors argued there was no time to waste, but Jack Waters insisted on waiting on the counsel of the “wise men” who were neither in the medical field nor, as the doctors would later point out, wise.
       “You cannot let your daughter receive a blood transfusion and sacrifice her everlasting life for this temporary one.” The gray eyes of the fresh-faced, acned, young white man, all of twenty-something, held a grave look. “Jack, you know this.”
       “If your daughter does not get a transfusion, she will die,” a hospital administrator said sternly. He spoke directly to Kathleen Waters in an obvious appeal to her maternal instincts. She held her head low as to not make direct eye contact.
       “You’re trying to save her temporary life,” the other wise man shouted back. “We’re trying to save her eternal soul.”
        And so the surreal battle went on, back and forth, Jack and Kathleen Waters becoming mere spectators as their older daughter, all of eight, lay moaning in a bed only a few feet away. While men of religion advised to let her die and medical personnel stormed out of the room, the machines hooked to the little girl beeped and whirred.
        Jack Waters was a man of faith.
        Years earlier, as a young man trying to make his way, he would embarrass himself with the overindulgence of drink. He would express his love for people and in this state he’d share his dreams and aspirations. A man craving respect, he would then spend whole weekends regretting what he must have done on Friday nights and avoid seeing anyone who might replay his transgressions when he would be of sober mind. He thought the birth of his first daughter would help him kick the habit, then the second, but still, he found himself in situations of celebration–someone’s birthday, landing a new account, a promotion, a death, a birth, a holiday—that would inevitably lead him to being the man he so wanted not to be. Finally, a chance meeting with a former schoolmate introduced him to the way of the Lord which meant forgiveness of past sins and a real reason to quit the drink.
         When his older daughter had come to him, he had been preparing a sermon on the story of Lot found in the book of Genesis. For some reason, he realized the date. It had been four years, to the day, since his last drink. He could sure use one now, with his child in the hospital and the deteriorating state of his marriage, but now was not the time to dwell on such thoughts.
        Presently, he was having a hard time wrapping his mind around the story of Lot in the city of Sodom and Gomorrah. The father of two young girls, himself,  he was struggling to understand why Lot, while harboring the two angels in human male form from a homosexual mob hell-bent on raping them, would offer his virgin daughters to the mob instead,. Was this something he could gloss over? Could the lesson be, simply, hospitality? No, too frivolous, he concluded. Sacrifice? That was it. Sacrifice. Would the congregation understand his sacrifice of his own daughter at that very moment and see the parallel between him and Lot? Would they see the connection between Lot’s wife and his own, turning back, yearning for the temporary life filled with fool’s gold? He was wrestling with such thoughts when Kenyatta, his older daughter’s best friend, knocked on the door. “Young brother Thomas. What can I do you for, this evening?” he said in greeting.
        Kenyatta smiled weakly. “She needs her school bag,” he said as he entered the apartment and went straight to his best friend’s room.
        Normally, such a presumptuous act would never be tolerated, but this was Kenyatta Thomas. The relationship the boy had with Jack Waters’ daughter was almost supernatural, other-worldly. They would talk for hours on end or just read books in each other’s company. They were both eight years old but seemed more like an old married couple that had been together for years past retirement. Their relationship was closer than that of his own marriage, Jack Waters often thought, but there was something about the boy–something about him that slightly unnerved Jack, made him just a bit uncomfortable. He could never put his finger on it, but it was definitely there. And every time he was in the boy’s presence, he tried to pinpoint exactly what it was.

***
It was his eyes. That is what Jack had finally found was disturbing about him. Large, sad, and reticent, they would frequently elicit a “what’s wrong?” from a curious adult. Once Kenyatta gave his usual response, “nothing,” the initial concern would turn to irritation. This made it difficult for Kenyatta to keep friends as most parents urged their children to shun the child with the low, black cloud seemingly shadowing his very existence.
The Waters were no exception, the only difference being that their daughter paid no attention to their warnings. Her only friend, he visited her daily in the hospital. Before and after school, he would come by with notes or work or cookies he would bring from class tucked into paper napkins. Their relationship bemused the staff.  They often wondered if he really understood the gravity of her condition and if that was the reason he would always look so sad.
 Kenyatta Thomas was the son of Louisa Thomas, the most religious woman in Throgs Neck. Old-timers in the neighborhood would remember Kenyatta as tall and thin. He was a strange, quiet child with a pleasant enough smile who’d visit them bright and early on weekend mornings to peddle religious reading material. Oftentimes, he’d recite a scripted sentence or two about the importance of pleasing God and studying His Holy Word. Before leaving their door, he would politely request a small donation to cover the minimal cost of the printed material he would attempt to leave.
It was on such an occasion, while accompanying his mother one Saturday morning into the white section of Throgs Neck called Edgewater - basically a trailer park built on swampland on the outskirts of the projects - when a middle-aged man sicced his German Shepherd on Mrs. Thomas. The incident left her limping from a bloody gash in her coffee-stockinged leg for the rest of her tour. Whether the man had been disgruntled with black people on his property, or religious folks, or because of the early hour, or all of the above, Kenyatta would never know.  He just knew that from that moment on, if people chose to go to hell, he wanted nothing to do with helping them in their decision one way or the other.
It was also around this time of his childhood, when he was about six or seven, that his maternal grandfather fell terminally ill. You see, one would be remiss in telling the story about Kenyatta Thomas’ peripatetic, clinophobic life without mentioning a thing or two about his grandfather. Pa, as his grandfather was called, was not in The Truth, the religion that governed the lives of his wife and four daughters, so they considered him worldly and dismissed him as an outsider. His opinions and advice were seldom solicited, and when his girls grew older and found themselves husbands who shared their views, he became a mere figurehead, similar to an outdated monarch of a country long since converted to democracy.
“Oh, and this is our dad,” they would say to fellow believers.
Pa’s dreams in life were never realized. He lost his freedom to decide his own future when he returned home from the war and impregnated the new neighbor that had moved in across the street from his family’s middle-class home while he was off fighting the good fight. They were married some months later, and in a few short years added three more daughters to their roster.
He worked. It never mattered what type of job he had. He hated them all, but he worked hard and provided a comfortable life for his wife and children who would eventually become zealots. It was only after his daughters became the age of young women that he started to feel defeated. They had chosen the religion of their mother over life, and he was gravely disappointed in them. He was hoping to see the fruition of his sacrificed dreams manifested somehow in their lives—at least in one of them. Instead, they chose to have religious doctrine dictate their thoughts and ideas of right and wrong, and as he bemoaned the loss of his younger years, his daughters grew to despise him.
As Kenyatta grew older, memories would resurface in the form of dreams, but the memory of the last time he saw his grandfather was not one of those. He carried that memory consciously around with him forever. He never forgot.
“You’ll have at least one chance,” Pa whispered to the young boy from his deathbed, enunciating as best he could. He wiped bile from the corners of his mouth. “I had a chance once. Twice, maybe. But I was so shackled with…” His voice trailed off as if he were looking at something in the distant past. “I told your mother and her sisters about it when they were in their twenties. Your mother, Louisa, may have been thirty by then. But they didn’t want to hear me. They don’t want to hear nothin’ that’s not in agreement with their…beliefs.” He said the last word the way some people pronounce cuss words.
Any time Kenyatta would hear that word, he would think of Pa. Even some twenty years later, Kenyatta could close his eyes and hear that one word, distinct from all the words he heard that day.
“I had my chance,” Pa continued. His voice trembled. “Now, I don’t know where I’m going.” The old man turned his head away and began to sob. His tears rolled down the deep creases of his face.
Kenyatta patted his grandfather’s old and wrinkled hand in a child’s attempt to comfort. “It’s all right Pa-Pa. It’s all right.” It would be the last time he would see his grandfather and his only lasting image of him.
***
        Kenyatta made his way along the eleventh-floor corridor of Calgary Hospital on his way to visit his friend in room 1130. Calgary was the place where all terminal cases were sent, and the staff was known for its bedside manner in a patient’s last days.The large oak board Kenyatta’s mother had made him wear hanging from a rope around his neck, announcing his sinful ways, made a rustling sound and impeded his gait.
        Nurses, doctors, and orderlies all stopped their work to look, reading the black, blocked letters with the word thief spelled theif on the board that covered most of his torso. Some just shook their heads while others held their hands over their mouths. One worker ran to get another and pointed in disbelief.
        Kenyatta barely noticed the ruckus his presence caused. He poked his head into room 1130  before entering.
        His friend was not on the window sill immersed in writing in her journal as she usually was when he visited. This day, she was lying in bed. A large, bright rainbow colored in crayon stretched across the wall above her bed near the window.
        He looked down at her in sleep and noticed her head had been shaved, her earrings the only indication of her femininity. He felt bad for staring. The strangeness of the situation reminded him of a dream he had the night before that had awakened and frightened him.
He had been standing in some sort of cabin, and a woman stood before him, holding a bloodied axe. She did not seem to be threatening him with it, but still, he felt unsettled by the image, and it had kept him up for some time afterward. Now, visiting his friend in her hospital room, he somehow knew the woman in his dream was her. No, not her, perhaps, but rather some reincarnation of her.
       “I see you peeking, Kenyatta.” She sat up in her bed and gave her best effort to smile. “Come here, silly.”
        Kenyatta stepped forward, sheepishly.
        She studied the bold words written on the board he wore, the kind someone would wear handing out fliers in the street advertising a service. “Do not talk to me. I’m a liar and a theif,” she read aloud.        “Whatever are you wearing that silly thing for, Kenyatta? Take it off before someone sees you.”
       “I can’t. My mom says I have to wear it for the whole day.”
       “Why?”
       “I took an extra cookie from Miss Fortunato’s class on Friday without permission.”
       “A cookie? Was it one of the ones you brought to me? Take that off, Kenyatta, or you can just leave here now.”
        Reluctantly, Kenyatta took off the board and set it down, ever so carefully, near the door.
       “That’s better. I need you to do something for me.” She reached under her pillow and produced her leather-bound journal, the book she had been writing her every thought and dream in every day for the last three years, the book she never allowed anyone to even look at, never mind hold. And now, she was extending it to him. “I want you to keep this for me,” she said.
       “Wh—what are you gonna write in if I take it?” he asked.
       “Just for a little while. The doctor says I need to rest up, so I won’t be doing any writing for a while. I won’t need it.”
        Kenyatta studied the book for a moment before slowly reaching out and taking it. He felt like Charlie Brown to her Lucy and grabbed it quickly for fear she would pull the football away. It was much lighter than he expected it to be. He had never held it before—no one ever had. The leather binding automatically gave it significance and made it feel like it was meant for an older person. Taking it felt like a larger responsibility than he was ready for.
        She looked at him. “I’ve loved you since before the earth had rings. Don’t you remember me?” she asked, tears stinging her eyes.
        Kenyatta was afraid to make eye contact. Instead, he stared intently at the journal now in his possession. He read the words she had written on the cover aloud: “The Beautiful One.”
       “I never liked when anyone but you called me that,” she said almost absently. She gazed deep into his eyes. “Cowards get cooked, Kenyatta.”
        Kenyatta, the boy with the unusually large, sad eyes, looked at his friend and tried to make sense of what was happening. He was not understanding anything she was saying. She was bald, in a hospital bed, and had just given him her journal—her journal for which she would fight someone for just staring at it too long.
        She looked at her friend, the sad eyes that seemed to infuriate adults, the confused expression etched on his face. She glanced to the sandwich board he was to wear that advertised him as a wicked boy. She rose and grabbed him by his shirt, pulling him close. “I’ll never forget to remember you. You were a rainbow, Kenyatta. You were a rainbow.”
        Kenyatta, now even more startled than just seconds earlier, took a few steps back without losing eye contact with his friend. “I’ll see you after school,” he said, grabbing the board before making his getaway.
***
        Jack Waters sat on his daughter’s empty hospital bed, staring into his personal abyss. A sound drew his attention to the doorway.
        Mrs. Waters entered the room carrying two suitcases. She set them down at her feet. “My baby has not died in vain, and you will not kill me like you did her, though you tried. You definitely tried. You’ll be seeing me, but I won’t ever see you, again.” She picked up her bags and started to walk out, then paused. She turned back to the man she loved once upon a time. “Just think of the irony, Jack.”
        Jack Waters raised his head to see the woman that was leaving him, the woman he had promised to love, honor, cherish, and protect. He realized, for the first time, those were all but mere words.
       “You gave up alcohol and sin only to worship a God that would bless your sacrifices by allowing your child to die.” Mrs. Waters stayed a few seconds to make sure her words marinated through to her husband’s psyche. When she once again turned to leave, she noticed her daughter’s friend standing in the doorway. “Kenyatta,” she said, looking at the closest friend to her child, “I am so sorry.”
        Kenyatta raced down the corridor, out of the hospital, and found himself in the street, not even remembering if he had taken the elevator or the stairs. An apologetic, feeble drizzle turned into a sudden downpour. The child had no destination in mind. He had no place to go. He just ran.
        The real irony befallen to Jack Waters was simply this: while he was consumed by religion and consulting scriptures in a constant search for something beautiful, the most beautiful thing he would ever experience had been right there with him for eight years.
        A truth that only the child with the despised eyes could see.



© 2018 (Alevan Thirty) Askia Farrell

Tuesday, April 03, 2018

Throg Neck's Finest


Not everyone makes it to 50.

James “Ice” Parker didn’t make it. Troy Bat died short of his 50th. Troy Douglas was nowhere near 50 when he passed.

That’s why it was both significant and an honor to attend the 50th birthday celebration of arguably Throg Neck’s most popular alum – Ricky Malcolm – a few Saturdays back.
Who in Throgs Neck from the 1970’s era to the 2000’s didn’t know Rick? Sheeeit. Even my moms knew Rick. Let me tell you why…

The year was 1976. Your young author - all of 6 years old - was making the daunting jaunt back from a hard day of 2nd grade learning at PS 72 when he was accosted for his Fat Albert lunchbox by a young Ricky Malcolm and his ever-present side kick, one Sean “Po” Raymond. A game of “Salucci” ensued (some racially insensitive may call it “Monkey in the Middle”) and said Fat Albert lunchbox was dropped and cracked, never to be sold on eBay 30 years later for the thousand$ it was sure to have fetched.

My mother was not a fan.

A short period later after Lunchbox-gate had subsided - after school and in summers, we’d have epic my block vs. his block baseball battles in the grass between our two buildings we called Royal Stadium for some reason; we played for the same PAL baseball team where our parents paid for equipment that somehow never materialized “We’re gonna get some bats, some balls…” Rick could even imitate those coaches’ false claims with accuracy today, 40 years later.

In junior high I would go early in the morning and play basketball in the gym before school would start. One morning, circa 1983 I’m cooling off outside in front of the school and from a distance I hear a roar of laughter…silence….roar of laughter…silence…and repeat - getting louder the closer it got to the school. As the crowd got closer I realize it’s just Rick telling jokes and attracting a crowd like the Pied Piper while he’s walking to school:

“I come to your house and your mother gave me two broom sticks: one to hold up the ceiling and one to fight the roaches!” Roar of laughter...joke…repeat.

Knowing Rick can be both exhilarating and uncomfortable - like riding Kingda Ka at Great Adventure for the first time or sitting in the front row at a Comedy Show and you happen to catch the comedian’s eye and he’s about to riff on you for an hour straight. 

Once he saw me at Mary’s buying toilet paper. “Wipe that ass!”

We’re entering McDonald’s drive thru in Troy Bat’s car, our girl Christine Davis is working and paying for food was never a concept. “May I take your order?” Rick leans over Troy before he could respond and yells “Hookup!” into drive through mic at deafening level.

He also had the guts of a burglar: we were at Amateur Night at the Apollo and Rick – no doubt fueled by bottles of Andre champagne – ran onstage and started telling jokes, and WAS NOT BOOED OFF. Even Sandman had to stand back and watch. Legendary, epic night.

He’d MC at Throgs Neck basketball tournament games. In between snapping on people in the crowd “I saw her last night at the Capri Motel and she asked me for a ride home ‘Ricky you going back to the Neck?’ he’d also do play by play. One year me and my boy Tim got with a team that wasn’t from the Neck and Rick branded us traitors. Every time either me or Tim touched the ball “Benedict with the ball dribbles up court and passes it to the other Benedict…” and so it went for the whole damn tournament.

The soundtrack for many of our early Saturday mornings were provided courtesy of Rick and Sean as they’d wash their cars or mopeds downstairs from our 2nd floor window where we were treated to sounds of the Stylistics, Delfonics and early Motown. My mother would turn off her music and sing along to theirs as she cleaned up the living room, even opening the window more to hear better. “They play such great music!”

My mother was a fan.

In Woody Allen’s masterpiece Crimes and Misdemeanors, Alan Alda’s character says “comedy is tragedy plus time.” Lord knows along the way he’s had his share of tragedy but somehow through it all he’s kept us laughing and intrigued.

Glasses raised to my boy, Rick.
Happy 50th, god!